"Tasteful or garish, simple or ostentatious, weddings today are the first chance a couple gets to announce to the world their chosen joint identity. Couples are preoccupied with getting each detail right because they are struggling to reflect the uniqueness of their relationship—and the hope that it will be strengthened, rather than undermined, by their individual identities and ambitions."
-from 'psychology today'
"the concepts of community, ritual, identity, and meaning... Because material culture plays a particularly important role in weddings examples of ritual, food, clothing, and objects are given special attention."
-from "Wedding as Text: Communicating Cultural Identities Through Ritual by Wendy Leeds-Hurwitz"
exactly what i was looking for!but i would love to hear from you guys more; is all this spending traditional-culturally driven? or is it something from the 1950s consumer-driven culture that we all still cling to?